That's also right. Things like love, that's not something you can control or make happen. There's no set standard that makes people fall in love with you. No matter how nice it would be. Love is just something that...has to be allowed to happen.

And you can't have everyone decide things for you. You can't please everyone, but if you can be happy with yourself, then the people who like that you will come. If it's dependent always on others, then you'll never be stable. Everyone has different opinions. If you can't have a real, honest opinion of yourself and a true sense of worth, then you'll always be miserable because SOMEONE won't like you.